Relationship Problems ?

How A Change Holiday Can Resolve Relationship Problems

“Relationship problems” is a huge umbrella phrase covering a wide rang of problems, the full spectrum of which we help resolve on our special change holidays. Our holidays work especially well with relationship problems for one very good reason, they give you precious space and time out of your day to day situation. Time that is spent not just waiting to return to the problems at home but really sorting them out and working out what to do next through our Change Therapy program.

By definition relationship problems become part of our everyday life and its often extremely difficult to see a way forward when you are right in the middle of things. Having distance and objectivity on your life and working through things with experienced specialists really does work. 

People come either individually or with partners, sometimes with very specific problems, and sometimes to “get things moving” as one of our guests recently put it.

Relationship Problems -  A Few Recent Change Holidays. 

Over the past year we have helped address a number of specific issues. I’ll go through a few cases, making sure I keep confidentiality, to give you an idea of how we can help:

• Couple A. Spent 2 weeks at the Baan Deva mountainside reteat on our counselling Retreat Holiday. They had been married for 6 years and felt as though they had drifted apart and felt bored with each other and “stagnant”. Frequent arguments and quarrels pushed them both into doing something about their relationship problems. They needed time out of their busy lives to assess where they both were in life and what they wanted to do next.
• Person B. Spent 1 week at the Puripunn Hotel needing to come to terms with the fact their partner was having a second affair in their marriage. They really needed to get away from the family home and think clearly about the decisions that lay ahead. They also wanted a damn good holiday and some comfortable easy going excursions and activities to “take their mind off things”. They were able to return home having decided what to do, created a comprehensive Change Plan that all our guests complete knowing we would be there to support them through the next three months with individual online counselling and support.
• Couple C. Arrived with us in a relationship crisis. A number of really difficult life situations had  happend very quickly and unexpectedly. They both didn’t know if there was a future in their relationship or not but needed to sort out immedeiate relationship problems without making rash or heated decisions. They both needed time out to get some much needed objectivity and perspective as well as some joint Change Therapy sessions to sort out immediate concerns. After a week of joint and individual change therapy sessions, as well as some great outings with our driver and guide some important decisions had been made and a way forward had been established.

I hope these few examples give you an idea of how our change holidays can help with a range of relationship problems.

If you are experiencing any kind of relationship problems please do contact us to find out how we can help. If you are unable to come out on one of our Change Holidays or take one of our online counselling courses do feel free to contact us anyway as we are a team of seasoned professionals and will almost certainly have other ideas and contacts that will be able to help you.